The problem with men and women...

There is no such thing as perfection and so as perfect personality of an individual. You can be decieved by their looks but don' t be too fool enough to judge them immediately. I think it would help if you get to know everyone by their inner personality and character. I can' t tell of a lot of problems of individuals but there are some I know that are very common. I think the number one problem of men is that most of them give and sacrifice a lot of things in their life just for the sake of love. It' s not really being a fool, I guess that is how they express their love to women and that is what satisfies them that they have shown enough of their love. The problem there is that they don' t reallize what they' ve lost when they fall for a woman, just like time for themselves. It should not be only giving when it comes to love, sharing would be more appropriate than giving almost all and also taking from the women. They would not lost their being gentleman if they only share a part of what they have because being a gentleman would mean having a respect to a woman. Women hide a lot of things and it is hard for them to share what they feel inside and I think this is the greatest problem with them. I don' t know why they hide a lot of things like falling in love but almost all of them do that. I think hiding those things would only cost them to cry easily because they were not able to express what they feel. They also find it hard to admit what they' ve done and what they feel. I think it is the nature of women to be secretive about things and crying easily while men worry easily when they see women crying. It is like sharing with them the problem of the women. It' s better that we both adjust for the sake of understanding each one of us because we interact with different people everyday.

7 Wonders of Falling in Love (hahah!!!)

Almost all cases of love started in meeting each other. It doesn' t matter how or where but the timing it is. It can happen in your everyday life, whatever you do and whoever you meet. It just comes in front of you knocking your heart to open and give some space for that person and after you get interested, you' ll be knowing him/ her. You would be finding out a lot of things about that person and it depends on you if what he/ she have is enough to work on something special that both of you have agreed on and it' s love that I mean. Even the bad or negative side of that person would make you fall for him/ her and that is accepting. Accepting is taking that person heartily for whatever he/ she is, both inside and outside of that person. You don' t care what other people say about the two of you when you accept a very different kind of person into your life. Even if the whole world say so, you just don' t mind them. It is already loving. This is the very heart of falling in love, it is the stage where you both share very unforgettable moments of your life and would cherrish it. Nobody knows what you feel deep inside, you' re the only one who knows and understands it. There comes a time when you know of something about your partner which you havn' t know already. Something bad or negative and still you do love him even if he/she does something that hurts you which wasn' t meant to. Understanding would be best to describe when you forgive and still won' t give up on that person. He/ she might hurt you painful enough to make it hard to heal the pain but still you forgive. Not all pains can be healed by saying sorry or asking forgiveness, you realize that the pain is just too real and would decide of letting go when you have to. Falling in love doesn' t end up with that, there are times you remember the person and even miss him/her in your life. Remembering when it' s gone could be the last thing you' ld probably do after falling in love and could be the only thing you can do. I just shared with you something I' ve read and experience not just in love but also in life.

Enjoy Life You People...

All of us are living our separate and different lives today and I think everyone would like to live the best of it. There are those who want to enrich their lives and some would just like to define it. A way of enriching our lives would be to work hard to get the things we wanted or improve in a way while those who are defining their lives just let their fortune to where they think they should be. These things we have to decide on how or what our life' s going to be, depends on us. You' re the only one who knows what your life' s going to be and what you want to happen with it. Both decisions you' ll be making would affect your life in a very big way because of the things and life you' re going to have. If you think you havn't decided yet, then maybe you can take this idea of mine or just reflect from it. Mine would be taking both of it. You think it's so complicated? I don' t think so. Of course I would work hard to have the things I have been craving for then after enriching my life, I'd be defining it to keep it on my life if not forever then it could be a longer time. Defining what you have would be still working hard enough to maintain them. In this way, you are confident of your life and your future that you can be proud of your achievements and can say "this is what I have worked hard for". Don' t worry if there are still things you've wanted that you still havn't get and still not satisfied with those things that surrounds you. I think it would be a very big help on you, specially that it' s still out there. You would be still looking forward on how to get it and what you' ve still lack on your self. It is still a good thing that you have things you still wanted because it keeps you going in life and you can still find things that inspire you in facing each obstacles in life. When you get something good for your self like achievements and complements, why not treat your self for a shopping or relaxing. In that way, you would keep your self working and going on in your everyday life. Just don't take things so seriously because things we're created to be used and not to be loved. Do what ever you want but still be responsible of your actions and just enjoy life.

Love' s Language

Of course everyone fall in love. Love is a natural phenomenon not caused by Mother Earth but by everyone around us. We might fall in love by looks or when you feel that it's your heart that telling you so. Anyone couldn't be certain when it comes to love because both you're mind and heart works in deciding what to do and I don't think that there is a time when both your mind and heart would have the same decision in it. When love comes to your life, are you prepared for it? You know what to do? For an individual who is his/ her first time to feel love for the opposite sex, I don't think he/she would have a good feeling because he/she don't know what the strange feeling he/she experiences. It' s like having a problem but don' t know what the problem is. If you' re a grown up individual and experience this feeling almost everytime and and can say you' re used to it, you think you' re brave enough to tell it? There' s a lot of people whose big problem is admitting to the person that they love them. They might know how to express it but that is not enough because the person that they are addressing their feeling might not feel it. The best way to admitt it would be just by saying it in front of him/her, in that way, he/she can feel how sincere you are to him/her depending on how you say it. No one forces you to fall in love and no one can force you to tell you' re inlove neither. If you do fall inlove but really afraid to say it, just think of these two things: one moment of embarrassment or one lifetime of regret. It' s so easy to fall inlove but on how to say it is a hard thing to do. Why not take a moment of embarrassment than a lifetime of regret? In that way, you will not live a miserable life regreting the thing you should have done in the earlier part of your life. Say and express what you feel inside, it is always free to do that.