The LOOk(comments about it)

The Look
Strephon kissed me in the spring,

Robin in the fall,

But Colin only looked at me

And never kissed at all.
Strephon's kiss was lost in jest,

Robin's lost in play,

But the kiss in Colin's eyes

Haunts me night and day.

As what you have read above, it is an interesting poem about the lovers. There were three males seemingly, loving a lady in different ways. That ways they used were expressing their personality inside.

I think what they have done haven' t really impressed the lady aside from Colin. Strephon and Robin both kissed her while Colin just took a look at her. The kissed she have were just lost after some time while Colin' s look was so mysterious that it is still at her head.

It might be said that the look is more powerful than that of the kiss she have but I think a good reason for that is because their eyes were having a communication to each other and that communication they have was placed on both of their hearts. I think the kiss that she have was just a reaction of the feeling they have but is less powerful than actually knowing the feeling itself.

...On being taught by students

As the event KYSD(Know Your School Day) had passed, students just can' t deny the fact that they really enjoyed that event where they were being taught by their fellow students. Maybe they were thinking of it as a fun activity but I think the reason behind it is that they are more comfortable with the student teachers than the teachers they used to have. Being taught by students lets you feel they are just your playmate and that they can relate to the latest happening inside your classroom. Talking about everyones crushes, latest fashion trends, and could also be the school' s news.

I myself admit that if I would be given the chance to choose the teacher whose going to teach me would go for the student teachers. I just fill that we have a strong bond connected to each other and that alone makes me comfortable to ask questions about our lessons and that makes them more approachable than the teachers we had in our classroom. Our teachers might know a lot of things compared to our student teachers and more experienced than they are, I think our student teachers can compete with them in terms of teaching strategies. It is because learning only happens by choice and that is what our student teachers can provide because of our closeness.

Nonetheless, KYSD only happens once a year and all of us love our teachers so I think, there is no way our beloved teachers can be replaced.

Our research study uses water hyacinth with molasses as alternative feed for pigs and commercial feeds. We aimed to compare the effect of the two feeds on the weight of the two pigs and which is more efficient to be used. We came up with using water hyacinth as a feed for pigs from the data we have gathered by computing the mean mass gains of the pigs after being fed at a given time. We used wter hyacinth to solve the problem of the over population of these aquatic macrophytes causing the clogging of drainage systems and crating a disturbed breeding ground for fresh water fishes. Also, the problem of the rising of the prices of commodities that is likely affecting the prices of animal feeds is aimed to be solved by our research study because it cost pig raisers a big amount of money in pursuing their business of raising pigs.

We, the reserchers came up an answer to this problems of the society by including water hyacinth feeds into our alternative feeds for pigs by chopping and mixing it with molasses. To make this a successful one, the researchers came up a scientific set-up where the pigs were fed with the water hyacinth with molasses in a mixed and computed diet for them and was mixed with commercial feeds while the remaining pig was fed with pure commercial feeds. The measurement of the amount of molasses and chopping some parts of water hyacinth was done in the Chemistry Lab of UP High. The amount of molasses depended on the amount of water hyacinth of the whole feed since 20% of the mass of the water hyacinth is the mass of the molasses.The researchers applied a statistical treatment which was the t-test of uncorrelated means since the variables in the study were not related to each other. The results gathered from the study showed that the water hyacinth feeds mixed with the commercial feeds showed a comparable effect to the mass of the pigs as compared with the commercial feeds alone. This result implies that water hyacinth can be used as substitute feeds for pigs. In just using this study, the researchers can control the over population of water hyacinth and solve the problems of hog raisers in their financial aspect. With these things, our study will be very significant and useful to aqua culturists and hog raisers.

Reflections on Teachers and Teaching

KYSD (Know Your School Day) is a school event held once every school year where students take place of teaching their fellow students just like what our teachers do to us. Students become the teachers while the teachers are given a chance to rest for even for just a while from teaching the students.It is chance to experience being a teacher or a faculty staff for a day or even two.
It was on January 24, 2007 when KYSD officially opened in UP High with some opening ceremonies at its open field. The student teachers were introduced to everyone in the campus by letting them went up to the stage while their I.D.s are given to them.
I think evryone of us were excited to have new faces of teachers in our subjects. I was one of those who were accepted to have the chance to teach my classmates and share my thoughts about the subject I am teaching. It was Practical Law that I taught during the KYSD and I was very nervous coming in front of my students. It is like their face are telling me that they are expecting a good lesson for today. I tried not to disappoint them but it was really hard for me being a teacher, specially in a law class where brilliant minds are gathered in front of me. There were a lot of questions being asked and I myself are also asking them to myself, just like the applications of the law and its scope. Law was really broad to be taught in just an hour. Nonetheless, they were satisfied by the answers I have given them.

Being a Practical Law teacher should be an exemption for those students who just sleep in their classes. It might be boring sometime but it really is very beneficial to everyone of us nowadays that there is a struggle for power and all want to be the leader. Laws are strictly implemented and as what is written in the Civil Code- Ignorantia Legis, Non excusat or Ignorance of the law excuses no one from compliance therewith. Teacher really is no joke now that I experienced it myself the preparations needed to come up with a lesson plan. I salute all the teachers for their priceless effort and their dedication to their work.

Hi!!!

TO BEGIN WITH…

Name: Melbert Ivan Mepieza Nickname: Melbz

Address: Sitio Kalubihan, Capitol Hills, Cebu City

Birthday: August 16, 1990 Birthplace: Chong Hua Medical Center, Cebu

Phone: 259- 7053 Mobile: 09275747996/ 09193690860

School: University of the Philippines

Course :…still in high school Email: treblem_leo816@yahoo

Hobbies: texting, surfing the net

Sports: basketball, volleyball, football, softball

Music: Emo Punk

Singer: My Chemical Romance, The Used, Alesana, Story of the Year

Food: Filipino, Korean, and Chinese foods

Color: Black and Blue

Likes: everything I had in my life

Dislikes: world chaos

Friends: everybody

Motto: The only way to make your dream come true is to wake up!

Describing Myself: 5’ 6 tall, fair complexion, almost chinky eyes, athletic, demi- God that Aphrodite can’t resist

Friendship for me is: the greatest wealth one should treasure in his entire life

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There is no typo- error here, it may not look like a poem but it is a poem. You can say the author is unorthodox but I' m impressed with his style of writing. He keeps the traditional style of poetry writing in this poem and I can say that the essence of poetry really requires analysis. This might not be easy to understand without knowing the title but we can analyze it by looking every details.

Let' s start on how it is arranged. The words are not in their proper places because it has been disarranged. If we arrange the poem vertically, we would be able to read it like this:
‘l(a leaf falls)oneliness’, the author inserted the phrase ‘a leaf falls’ between the letters ‘l’ and ‘o’ and I think there' s really one leaf that falls and is separated from the tree and the other leaves. This leaf might be the one that falls in front of the author while he was lonely and decided to write it in the poem he was writing. It could also be the author that relates himself to the leaf. So, if the leaf was a person he or she would feel lonely because he might be left behind or separated from the people he or she was with for a long time.

I think his reason for this structure would be the emotions he felt while writing this and why it is hard for us to understand is because his deep personality that belies. This would be just a poem he made to make the lonely ones get busy annalyzing it. Don't you think so? Just let your playful mind work in this. Sometimes we do not have to think complicately in complicated things, we just have to speak out our opinions with it...

I still remember my last summer...

Summer is the longest vacation time in as tudent' s life that lasts for about two months. It must be enjoyed by everyone although it is hit at that time because you do not have to worry for anything else that is waiting for you to be done just like homeworks and school projects.

I spent my last summer in our province in Medellin. It was the town' s fiesta and it lasted for about ten days which was held from April 18 to April 28. When my friends knew that I already arrived from the city, they went to our house and there we planned our plans for our vacation. Together with my friends and couzins, we party from 8pm until 2am in the dawn. We enjoyed every night of the fiesta because of its events and we all had a hard- rocking party with the new acquaintance of friends.

My summer did not ended after the fiesta. Instead it had just started. I wake up every morning at 8am because my mother would ask me to water the plants. After those stuffs, I scrubbed our wooden floor that has shined because of my hard work. (heheh! how a good son I am!) When I am done of all my household chores, I would already be watching my favorite TV shows together with my brother with an ice cold coffee on our hands. We are having our siesta at 1pm and ends it at 3pm to play basketball. You may think it is still very hot to play at that time but it is not because the basketball court is surrounded by old acacia trees. We usually stop playing at 5pm to take a rest for one hour and then take a bath and prepare our dinner. It is at 8pm that we go out from our house to meet mt friends and play some games or just hang out with them. It is until 12am that we go back to our house and rest for the next day. I do these stuffs for almost four weeks with the same things every day. Thus, summer was not that hot as you think, it was in fact a cool one.

Vanity or Gay... you decide!

Is it bad to be very conscious about the way you look?

Isn' t it normal for a guy to spend a lot of time making himself look good?

Is it vanity or already being a gay?

I am very conscious about the way I look and how people look at me. Of course I am not a gay and I am very sure of that, as sure as everyone would read this blog of mine. (hehehe!) Seriously, I really have this kind of attitude which I just got by myself- I am not influenced by any woman in our family.

Just read the things I usually do with myself and be convinced it is not bad to spend too much time just like the girls do with themselves.

I start my day with a thirty- minute bath. I would not just share with you what products I used 'coz you might fall into vanity too. I use body scrubs, facial foam and still lot more. I then put on a lotion after my bath for a moisturized skin and at the same time a protection against sun' s rays. The next thing I would do will be spending fifteen minutes in front of a mirror styling my hair and fixing my clothes. I am also a health conscious person that is why I balance every meal I take and I do not really go for junk foods. It is just that I do not find it healthy to eat and it does not tastes good for me unlike my other classmates who enjoyed eating it.

I know when I'm already gaining weight without looking at the weighing scale and when I do gain weight, I work it out. Sometimes playing basketball is my way of losing weight and I find it effective on me after a day at the school. After an hour of playing, I then refresh myself before I go home- I again face the mirror for a couple of minutes.

I was not aware of these things, that I seem to be like in vain until a girl friend of my mine commented that I am more feminine than her because she observed I'm more conscious on the way I look than her. It wasn' t just a person who gave me a feedback about that, there' s many of them. I was not overwhelmed by their reactions and I just stayed the same, I guess they are already used to it.

Oh, How sweet!!

Why do we love and lust after chocolate?

Soft and sweet, mouth watering goodness, warm and hugging to the palate, chocolate is the ultimate comfort food. With research revealing that it contains substances that have the same effect on the brain as marijuana, it is no wonder this once primitive drink has evolved into a culinary staple food, a world dessert favorite, and one of the most romantic gifts of love.

Hold on to that bar of chocolate you are eating because it was the ultimate precious commodity 1, 000 years ago. Mayan and Aztec civilizations used chocolate as a medium of payment. They brewed their excess cocoa harvest into a drink called "xocolatl" or "bitter liquid". Served in golden goblets, they believed it gave them wisdom and power. It was the Spaniards who added water and sugar. In 1848, the concept of "eating" chocolate was born: Cocoa butter and sugar were added to a paste of ground cocoa beans. In 1905, Cadbury created the first milk bars, starting with Dairy Milk. A key ingredient is chocolate liquor, extracted from roasted and crushed cocoa beans. It is what makes chocolate, chocolate. (www.femalenetwork.com)

Any connoisseur will tell you that the ultimate indulgence is Couverture, a top- of- the- line type of chocolate. Pure with high quantities of cocoa butter, Couverture ("covering" in French) is used for truffles and handmade chocolates. The best Couverture comes from Europe. Every country has a specialty- France, Belgium, and Germany make the best dark Couverture; Switzerland, the best Giuanduja, and Holland, the best cocoa powder and milk chocolate. My perfect chocolate experience? Freshly made Belgian truffles- they are the richest, but are only good for one week due to their fresh ingredients. I got a bad tonsillitis after eating one pack. (Good for me!)

...and will they live happily ever after??

Not to jinx things, but you have to admit: The sweet girl you have been steadily seeing practically has soul mate tattoed on her forehead. You both have so many similarities and in fact, your chemistry and comfort level are so solid, you can not help but think she might just be- The One.

Even so, in the back of your mind you still have a few lingering doubts. That is because liking the same things or having similarities and having sparks is not enough to sustain a long- term relationship. Rather, you need to be sure that you two are also fused on a deeper, more intuitive level.

Some of the things that can test your relationship would be:

Do you worry that things will end when you argue?

It is normal for partners to fight but only megatight twosomes don not have it without holding back on hot- button issues. A lot of partners do not bring up important subjects because they fear it will damage the relationship. Deep down, they do not trust that their union could withstand real conflict. Of course, expressing every little grievance will doom and not deepen your bond. But if you and your girl tackle tough topics, it shows that you are not scared to try the strength of your relationship.

Can you reveal secrets without fear of being judged?

Everyone has dark life secrets they try to keep concealed. But if you can reveal the dark secrets without worrying that your girl will leave you, then your bond may be built to last. Divulging your most intimate secrets demonstrates that you can show your true self, and you know it won' t affect his attraction to you.

So, you think you have found your girl? Only you know...

Mind over Heart... (harhar!)

How well do you decide? Are all your decisions right and have no regrets on all of them? What must be followed when you make decisions?

We are faced by a lot of different problems in everyday of our lives. Problems about money, family, studies and relationship are just some of those everyday problems. There are those who find it just easy to solve these problems but there are some who take so much time thinking and some even day dreamed trying to figure out how to get away from it. Decision making is a very crucial part in everyone's life not just because it solve our problems but because it can change our lives forever on what decision we make and if we wrongly decide, we feel so much guilt inside.

I have read something about this common problem of ours and I wanna share it with you. It goes like this:

"When you make decisions, follow your heart, not your mind. For if your mind' s decision fails, you regret, but if your heart fails, you will just smile and say- Nice try! "

I myself got a lot of problems and it gets more everyday. I even have tried to day dreamed about it but day dreaming does not really help me solve my problems at all, what' s worst is that it is a big waste of time and yet not all are well decided. I used to solve my problems by reading books and magazines and most likely I found answers to my problems but the statement I shared above really did help a lot. I agree it is not always the mind that works for all of our problems but the heart because it does not feel that bad when your decision fails. Trust me, you will regret a lot when you let your mind decide all of the time and the decision you made fails because you are expecting a lot from your mind and you forgot to balance your decision with your feelings. That is why we have a brilliant mind and an emotional heart so that we can decide well by balancing both factors. The final decision is still up to you.

Nobody' s Perfect....

Do you know the reason behind why nobody is perfect?

It is because of love. We are all destined to love an imperfect person and our mission is to fill each other' s emptiness. It is only when you are loved that the emptiness of you is suddenly filledand from nobody you are, you become a somebody. Even if we consider each of ourselves a very imperfect person and that we are not worthy to be loved, it is nice to know the fact that we love someone behind his imperfections. It is in this way that we feel love the most and we can say it is true love that we feel for that person. Love bears with all things, no one can hinder, and there is no perfect reason why you love a person. That is love. It is in imperfections that our love is being tested and it is where we see how much we love that person, not for being someone he/ she pretended to be but it is all about himself. To accept the whole of him with his/ her imperfections is up to us because we are the only one who knows what we feel for that person and if you are willing to do so, go ahead and fight for it. As the saying goes, to love is not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. This is the real essence of love- loving unconditionally and accepting everything in that person because it is knowing all about that person and not regreting for the imperfections he/ she have that you will discover in the later part. Just prove your love to everybody and work things out and not worry about the rules in love- what must be done and what must not. Go on lose yourself. You will just find yourself one day living in a happy ending story with the perfect moments, no regrets, no sorry, just in the top of the world.

You have it!!!

Are you contented with the life you have now? You must be. Do you think there' s still something missing even when you have already work hard for something you have been wanting? You should not. Do you think there is some thing wrong with the world? There' s nothing wrong with the world, it must have been you. How can you say there is still something missing when everything you need is just around you and they are all of your reach. As you see, we just have to work for it because there is no such thing that just walk in front of you and say "Hey, I' m just here... c'mon take me." Just like when you need money, you ask your parent for it but there are some conditions in giving it to you like, doing some household chores. You see you have to sacrifice something to get what you want and just do what you have to for it. After doing these things and having what you want, you will feel fulfillment to yourself and really worthy of it but contentment does not ends there. It is because, CONTENTMENT is not always the fulfillment of what you want but it is the REALIZATION of how blessed you are for what you already have. This is the reason why most of us are still not happy of their lives and would still ask for more blessings for themselves. I know we are living in a very busy world today and we want everything to be fast and instant just like the blessings we are asking and just forget what it takes to have it. I think everybody should know the essence of contentment so that they will know or realize what they already have and because it will just cost them more time and effort to work for something they already have. We just have to spend time in this busy world of ours and reflect ourselves the reason of living a luxury of life where everything we need asked for is just a reach away and when we have them, let us give importance to each because it is not everyday we get o have these blessings we receive.

How I want to be remembered...

The close- to- nature surroundings of U.P. High, the brilliant teachers, the hardworking students and just everything about high school life is just so great. From the first day of school where we first met our dear friends to day of our graduation where we' re about to depart our ways was very full of heart- warming memories.

How I want to be remembered when I left high school?

I just wanna be someone together with my batch mates be remembered as the batch of U.P. High who made it to the end of their fourth year life who never gave up on the trials that our school has given. Maybe we lose hope sometimes, that it came to our mind to stop going school but there' s no way you can payoff the bonds of friendship we made, the laughters and tears we've all experienced, the thrill and excitement we've faced in every day we came to school. We' re just ordinary students with great minds and a heart that beat as one which made as extraordinary persons, knowing how to survive in a fierce competition in this world with hard work, dedication, patience, and the help from our friends. When you are surrounded with these kind of people, you just lose yourself and be the best you can not just because you have to but because you know you can also be too. And when you are the best of you, there is no need to worry and regret for what is going to happen because you know that is what you are capable of doing and you did not cheat just to get what you want instead, you accept what is going to happen and learn from it to be better next time. You may think going in this school would be like committing suicide but it is not, you are just being challenged by everyone because they want you to be a strong person ready to face the global competition of great minds.

I know I have achievements and that I have made U.P. High proud of me and maybe I made a name worth remembering for everybody but still I wanna share it with the rest of my batch mates who inspired or in a way let me do what I thought I can not. It is not how long we had been in our school but it is the way we lived each day and make the most of it that made us contented that we are worthy to leave our school and be proud to call ourselves UPIAN.

Face: Mask of the Heart....

Face: Mask of the Heart

Smile: Window of the Heart

Heart: ?

The face can speak of a thousand emotions. It shows other people the smile and the tears you have. By looking at one' s face, we know what he/ she feels but it can easily mask what the heart truly feels. It's like showing an incomplete smile because of carrying a lot of problems inside. It is the smile that serves as the window to one' s heart.

There' s this one girl I know that owns one of the most beautiful smile I ever seen. She was just a simple yet cute girl. From the first time I saw her, I thought she was shy but as I get to know her, my perception changed. She was not. I bet you will never know her by just looking at her face because behind that face lies a very different personality. Believe me, she was in fact a talkative one and humorous as well. Yeah, she knows how to make me smile and when I did, my face can no longer mask what my heart truly feels. I guess she got the key to my heart and she really got me with her smile and I did fall for her.

It is not only the outside appearance that is the measure of beauty but also the beauty that lies within every person. You just have to know him/her for you to discover the beauty he/she possesed. Outside appearance is not enough to say he/she has a good personality just because he/she looks good. It is not always like that because sometimes the happiest face may just be masking the most hurtful heart.

As for me, I don' t need to mask what I feel for my girl. What she looks outside is how great her personality is and that is already the greatest thing you can ask for.

Are YOU man enough??

To the men who are reading this, are you sure you are man enough? Do you have what it takes for your self to be called a real man? To the girls and those who are loving their man, are they worthy of the love you are giving them? What I'm writing now might not answer all of your questions but this definitely can help you somehow. You will know that the things the men are showing in this world right now are just like pretensions for us to know that they really are a real man. Just sit there and try to consider what I'll be talkin' about.

A real man doesn't necessarily know how to play basketball. Instead, he must know how to play the game with attitude, just do what he can in the game and must know that being a loser is not something he must be ashamed of but something he must take as a challenge to himself to be better next time. Knowing how to play basketball is just a step closer to understanding that playing the game is not just about winning, it's enjoying the time you have in it.

A real man does cry even when in front of a girl. All of us do have emotions, it's just that the girls are more showy when they cry and they often do it than the boys. But what's wrong with crying? Is it just for the weak- hearted? I don't think so. Crying in front of a girl would be letting them know that men also have the right to cry because it's not always that we can control our emotions and pretend that we can also get hurt.

A real man does wear pink without hesitation. Now, why would the men have hesitation in wearing pink? Don't they know that pink means masculine? We often see girls wear pink than men and maybe that's the reason why we thought pink is just for girls. It really don't matters what color you wear but what matters is how you wear it and how well you carry yourself. Since pink means masculine, don't you think it should be the girls who would have hesitation in wearing it? (heheh!)

A real man never fights without any reason. Is showing your fist in public let the people know you' re a real man? Nope, it only shows you are a violent person and you' ll just scare people away and that' s not a good way to impress people. You' ld better not fight without any reason because it will just cause you bruises or not fight at all, instead, how about you try settling it for once. Force would not always be necessary to solve problems.

A real man doesn't have lots of girlfriends, only one. What is it with having a lot of girlfriends? Just having a lot of partners? So, its just causing you a lot of trouble and can make you busy most of the time. It would mean you' ll have a few time for yourself and it' s going to be a very stressful thing on your part. It' s not how many girlfriends you have but it' s how well you handle your relationship and make each last for a long time. It' s what you can do to make them stay.

A real man has respect for girls. Making friends with the girls is not that easy as it seems. You see, they are not the same with the boys as you make friends with them. They' re of different gender and there some things that we should not take for granted just like the jokes we have in mind. We should be sensitive enough to know what things they don't wanna hear and we must respect it. It' s not that they' re overacting but it' s just there nature. Just consider the fact that they' re still different from the boys and you' ll know how to give that respect.

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A real man is a servant of God. The things that the real man must have wouldn' t be complete without serving God. It' s giving back and thanking God for the great things we had in life that made us feel good about ourself. Not all problems in life are answered and being a servant of God enlightens our mind to solve these problems. After all, it' s still humility we must possesed.

You see? These are just some of the things we expect from a real man but it's not really what it takes

to be one. It' s just like being a perfect person even when nobody can but we' re still trying to. I' m not criticizing what the men are doing, it' s just that I wanna speak on something that' s overrated. I myself for one is trying to be a real man. I play basketball often, I don't cry when in front of a girl, I wear pink with hesitation, I fight without any reason, I have a girlfriend and I' m not planning to have more, and sometimes I disrespect girls. I hope these things have helped those who want to be a real man and those who wanna know what a real man is.

The problem with men and women...

There is no such thing as perfection and so as perfect personality of an individual. You can be decieved by their looks but don' t be too fool enough to judge them immediately. I think it would help if you get to know everyone by their inner personality and character. I can' t tell of a lot of problems of individuals but there are some I know that are very common. I think the number one problem of men is that most of them give and sacrifice a lot of things in their life just for the sake of love. It' s not really being a fool, I guess that is how they express their love to women and that is what satisfies them that they have shown enough of their love. The problem there is that they don' t reallize what they' ve lost when they fall for a woman, just like time for themselves. It should not be only giving when it comes to love, sharing would be more appropriate than giving almost all and also taking from the women. They would not lost their being gentleman if they only share a part of what they have because being a gentleman would mean having a respect to a woman. Women hide a lot of things and it is hard for them to share what they feel inside and I think this is the greatest problem with them. I don' t know why they hide a lot of things like falling in love but almost all of them do that. I think hiding those things would only cost them to cry easily because they were not able to express what they feel. They also find it hard to admit what they' ve done and what they feel. I think it is the nature of women to be secretive about things and crying easily while men worry easily when they see women crying. It is like sharing with them the problem of the women. It' s better that we both adjust for the sake of understanding each one of us because we interact with different people everyday.

7 Wonders of Falling in Love (hahah!!!)

Almost all cases of love started in meeting each other. It doesn' t matter how or where but the timing it is. It can happen in your everyday life, whatever you do and whoever you meet. It just comes in front of you knocking your heart to open and give some space for that person and after you get interested, you' ll be knowing him/ her. You would be finding out a lot of things about that person and it depends on you if what he/ she have is enough to work on something special that both of you have agreed on and it' s love that I mean. Even the bad or negative side of that person would make you fall for him/ her and that is accepting. Accepting is taking that person heartily for whatever he/ she is, both inside and outside of that person. You don' t care what other people say about the two of you when you accept a very different kind of person into your life. Even if the whole world say so, you just don' t mind them. It is already loving. This is the very heart of falling in love, it is the stage where you both share very unforgettable moments of your life and would cherrish it. Nobody knows what you feel deep inside, you' re the only one who knows and understands it. There comes a time when you know of something about your partner which you havn' t know already. Something bad or negative and still you do love him even if he/she does something that hurts you which wasn' t meant to. Understanding would be best to describe when you forgive and still won' t give up on that person. He/ she might hurt you painful enough to make it hard to heal the pain but still you forgive. Not all pains can be healed by saying sorry or asking forgiveness, you realize that the pain is just too real and would decide of letting go when you have to. Falling in love doesn' t end up with that, there are times you remember the person and even miss him/her in your life. Remembering when it' s gone could be the last thing you' ld probably do after falling in love and could be the only thing you can do. I just shared with you something I' ve read and experience not just in love but also in life.

Enjoy Life You People...

All of us are living our separate and different lives today and I think everyone would like to live the best of it. There are those who want to enrich their lives and some would just like to define it. A way of enriching our lives would be to work hard to get the things we wanted or improve in a way while those who are defining their lives just let their fortune to where they think they should be. These things we have to decide on how or what our life' s going to be, depends on us. You' re the only one who knows what your life' s going to be and what you want to happen with it. Both decisions you' ll be making would affect your life in a very big way because of the things and life you' re going to have. If you think you havn't decided yet, then maybe you can take this idea of mine or just reflect from it. Mine would be taking both of it. You think it's so complicated? I don' t think so. Of course I would work hard to have the things I have been craving for then after enriching my life, I'd be defining it to keep it on my life if not forever then it could be a longer time. Defining what you have would be still working hard enough to maintain them. In this way, you are confident of your life and your future that you can be proud of your achievements and can say "this is what I have worked hard for". Don' t worry if there are still things you've wanted that you still havn't get and still not satisfied with those things that surrounds you. I think it would be a very big help on you, specially that it' s still out there. You would be still looking forward on how to get it and what you' ve still lack on your self. It is still a good thing that you have things you still wanted because it keeps you going in life and you can still find things that inspire you in facing each obstacles in life. When you get something good for your self like achievements and complements, why not treat your self for a shopping or relaxing. In that way, you would keep your self working and going on in your everyday life. Just don't take things so seriously because things we're created to be used and not to be loved. Do what ever you want but still be responsible of your actions and just enjoy life.

Love' s Language

Of course everyone fall in love. Love is a natural phenomenon not caused by Mother Earth but by everyone around us. We might fall in love by looks or when you feel that it's your heart that telling you so. Anyone couldn't be certain when it comes to love because both you're mind and heart works in deciding what to do and I don't think that there is a time when both your mind and heart would have the same decision in it. When love comes to your life, are you prepared for it? You know what to do? For an individual who is his/ her first time to feel love for the opposite sex, I don't think he/she would have a good feeling because he/she don't know what the strange feeling he/she experiences. It' s like having a problem but don' t know what the problem is. If you' re a grown up individual and experience this feeling almost everytime and and can say you' re used to it, you think you' re brave enough to tell it? There' s a lot of people whose big problem is admitting to the person that they love them. They might know how to express it but that is not enough because the person that they are addressing their feeling might not feel it. The best way to admitt it would be just by saying it in front of him/her, in that way, he/she can feel how sincere you are to him/her depending on how you say it. No one forces you to fall in love and no one can force you to tell you' re inlove neither. If you do fall inlove but really afraid to say it, just think of these two things: one moment of embarrassment or one lifetime of regret. It' s so easy to fall inlove but on how to say it is a hard thing to do. Why not take a moment of embarrassment than a lifetime of regret? In that way, you will not live a miserable life regreting the thing you should have done in the earlier part of your life. Say and express what you feel inside, it is always free to do that.