Not to jinx things, but you have to admit: The sweet girl you have been steadily seeing practically has soul mate tattoed on her forehead. You both have so many similarities and in fact, your chemistry and comfort level are so solid, you can not help but think she might just be- The One.
Even so, in the back of your mind you still have a few lingering doubts. That is because liking the same things or having similarities and having sparks is not enough to sustain a long- term relationship. Rather, you need to be sure that you two are also fused on a deeper, more intuitive level.
Some of the things that can test your relationship would be:
Do you worry that things will end when you argue?
It is normal for partners to fight but only megatight twosomes don not have it without holding back on hot- button issues. A lot of partners do not bring up important subjects because they fear it will damage the relationship. Deep down, they do not trust that their union could withstand real conflict. Of course, expressing every little grievance will doom and not deepen your bond. But if you and your girl tackle tough topics, it shows that you are not scared to try the strength of your relationship.
Can you reveal secrets without fear of being judged?
Everyone has dark life secrets they try to keep concealed. But if you can reveal the dark secrets without worrying that your girl will leave you, then your bond may be built to last. Divulging your most intimate secrets demonstrates that you can show your true self, and you know it won' t affect his attraction to you.
So, you think you have found your girl? Only you know...
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