How well do you decide? Are all your decisions right and have no regrets on all of them? What must be followed when you make decisions?
We are faced by a lot of different problems in everyday of our lives. Problems about money, family, studies and relationship are just some of those everyday problems. There are those who find it just easy to solve these problems but there are some who take so much time thinking and some even day dreamed trying to figure out how to get away from it. Decision making is a very crucial part in everyone's life not just because it solve our problems but because it can change our lives forever on what decision we make and if we wrongly decide, we feel so much guilt inside.
I have read something about this common problem of ours and I wanna share it with you. It goes like this:
"When you make decisions, follow your heart, not your mind. For if your mind' s decision fails, you regret, but if your heart fails, you will just smile and say- Nice try! "
I myself got a lot of problems and it gets more everyday. I even have tried to day dreamed about it but day dreaming does not really help me solve my problems at all, what' s worst is that it is a big waste of time and yet not all are well decided. I used to solve my problems by reading books and magazines and most likely I found answers to my problems but the statement I shared above really did help a lot. I agree it is not always the mind that works for all of our problems but the heart because it does not feel that bad when your decision fails. Trust me, you will regret a lot when you let your mind decide all of the time and the decision you made fails because you are expecting a lot from your mind and you forgot to balance your decision with your feelings. That is why we have a brilliant mind and an emotional heart so that we can decide well by balancing both factors. The final decision is still up to you.
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